Why I Stepped Out On My 22 Year Marriage

Before I get started I just want to be clear: I love my wife and I have no desire to hurt her. I just have needs that she doesn’t satisfy. So, my only choices are to either leave (and destroy our family) or get my needs met elsewhere. I chose the second option.

How did I do it? I was able to find the most amazing woman I’ve ever met in my life on this discreet little website for men who are married or involved.  

The thoughts of seeing someone else have always been there. But they really got strong about 19 years into our marriage. Something was just off. My wife was never an affectionate person with me, but things took a turn for the worst. 

I Cheated On Wife Because I Felt Like I Had To

Not only did she stop giving me sex, but she began to become indifferent when I would bring up the topic. Maybe it was my mind playing tricks but, I felt like she was starting to flirt and give her attention to other men as well. 

Days turned into weeks and weeks turned into months – and still no sex. I don’t know if there are other guys out there who deal with similar situations, but it felt like I was beginning to go crazy.

I work for an international company, in the product development department, so I spend all day in a large building full of pretty women.

There was one girl in particular that I took a big liking too. And the way she used to look at me make me feel like she liked me too. The only problem is, she’s married. And since she is off limits, I decided to look at other options. 

The Secret Affair That Actually Turned Out To Be My Soulmate

“What about Tinder?” I thought. That would surely be my solution. But when I thought about it, I’ve heard my 20 year old son talk about finding girls on tinder – so I don’t think I want to be on a site that would have me and my son competing against each other for female attention. Plus – it would be super weird if he or one of his friends happened to find out I’m on there. 

 So, I figured I would check out one of those sugar daddies sites. But on second thought, my wife and I have a joint bank account, and I risk sending some girl cash that I would have to try and explain to my wife.

Frustrated, I decided to go watch some porn to help me take the edge off just a little bit. And somehow or another, I found myself on VictoriaMilan.com.

The site said it could accurately match me with local women who are looking for men who are married or involved. At first, I was skeptical. I thought it was a fake site put up by the creators of Cheaters or something like that.

But after digging around and doing some research, I found out that this site is the real deal. So I gave it a shot. 

I logged in an scrolled for about 30 seconds. And I felt like a kid at Disneyland because my screen was filled with never ending perfect tens.

Then right when I got to the bottom of the page, BOOM! There she was… That hottie from my job. I couldn’t believe my eyes. And since I was in disbelief, I gave myself every excuse in the book not to message her. 

First I thought, this must be a catfish account because there’s no way in hell she would be on a site like this… But then I thought, why wouldn’t she be? After all it is private and discreet. 

Then I thought, “What if I message her and she doesn’t like me?”… Or even worse, “What if she shows my messages to people at work!” I don’t think I could deal with that type of pressure…

But then I realized how she looked at me the last time I saw her… And there was only one way to find out if she felt like I felt.

So, I messaged her then I quickly logged off because my anxiety wouldn’t let me wait for a reply. I went to sleep and woke up late for work the next day (forgot to set my alarm)…

Not even thinking about the night before I rushed into the office. When lunch rolled around I went into the breakroom to eat. And as I’m tearing open a bag of Lay’s potato chips I felt a tap on my shoulder and an angelic voice say, “Did you see my message?”

I turned around and it was as if the clouds parted to let the sunshine through… Because when I turned around the next thing my eyes locked onto was the glory of her flawless face. 

“Oh shit!” were the only words that my feeble brain could come up with at that time. I then caught my senses and explained to her how I didn’t even think it was really her. We laughed it off and spent the rest of lunch together. 

Come to find out, she is married. And she is unhappy. Not only that but, she does find me attractive after all. We arranged to meet that weekend for a candlelight dinner by the water. 

The conversation was mind blowing and it felt so right. As time passed we got even closer. A few weeks into it and we were sleeping together. Frequently might I add!

I can’t believe it. Not only am I having an affair. But I’m actually falling in love with this woman. And she is falling for me as well. 

As a result, it has made both of our lives at home much better. Less tension, less arguing and less bickering. Some people might find our situation weird, but to be honest, it works perfect for us. 

If anyone reading this is even a little bit curious to see what’s out there, I would strongly recommend that you give Victoria Milan a try! Do it if you love your family and you want to keep them together. That’s what I did!